God has been very kind to me when it comes to friends. Since childhood I have never fallen short of friends.... and I have found a good variety of them, possessing different combinations....right from caring, possessive, nerd, weird, sweet, dumb, intelligent, indifferent, snob, psycho, smart....super smart, and some plain selfish. Got to learn a lot from them. 
But when it came to best friends....I think God was pretty confused himself. He chose to give me some variety....also not to forget in installments. For every 2-3 yrs I would have friends with whom I could connect, share the deepest secrets , our typical joys n sorrows, crushes, gal talk but then eventually for some strange reason we would part...and lose touch over a period. All that remains is the tag 'best friend'.
No onez to blame in this situation as its no onez fault. As they say its very easy to build relationships... the difficult part is to maintain it. I feel somewhere in life priorities change... (I mean every one of us here)...consequently so do people. Why? How? Well there are many factors....careers, boyfriend/girlfriend, work etc etc.... and some times misunderstandings (worst).
Right now in this stage I do have 'close friends' who like me for who I am(as I am), care for me, have been there for me when I needed them(and vice versa …of course)....and I hope we remain close friends forever.
But when it came to best friends....I think God was pretty confused himself. He chose to give me some variety....also not to forget in installments. For every 2-3 yrs I would have friends with whom I could connect, share the deepest secrets , our typical joys n sorrows, crushes, gal talk but then eventually for some strange reason we would part...and lose touch over a period. All that remains is the tag 'best friend'.
No onez to blame in this situation as its no onez fault. As they say its very easy to build relationships... the difficult part is to maintain it. I feel somewhere in life priorities change... (I mean every one of us here)...consequently so do people. Why? How? Well there are many factors....careers, boyfriend/girlfriend, work etc etc.... and some times misunderstandings (worst).
Right now in this stage I do have 'close friends' who like me for who I am(as I am), care for me, have been there for me when I needed them(and vice versa …of course)....and I hope we remain close friends forever.
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ReplyDeletei jst came across ur blog.i nvr knew u blogged.loved reading ur blog.Lifes changed.v hv lota cataching up to do.der's so much to tell u.missing our group