I must have done something really good in my past life to deserve such amazing people around me , first would be my family (of course yaar....) and second are my close friends/my buddies/my jaanuuuuuuzzzzzz...lolzzz !
They have been my constant support , my lifeline.......
I dont wanna lose them ever.......!
If you guyz are reading this.......i just want you to know.....i love you too much! u rock!muaaahhhh!
Saturday, January 31, 2009
MBA...not just a masters course for me!
Am soo used to being organised though my family will never agree with me ..am sure... they think i am a complete mess!! I have always been the 'good girl' type ...u kno! going to college on time ,coming back home soon after lectures. I used to like being back home early, for me being at home is relaxing.Staying in college after lecs used to be a waste of time for me.
But MBA has been a different experience for me. It has taught me to stay away from home.I can confidently say my coll is my second home.My parents have started considering me as their payin guests(only difference being... i dont pay!) as i come home only to sleep. There are times when i dont get to see my father for days ....as... i enter the house when he goes to sleep and i wake up in the morning after he leaves for work. Its cool to use the phrase.."hey dad! long time no c!"
I have learnt a lot after joining this college and by sayin this i mean apart form the normal book stuff.There were soo many things that i used to believe ....especially about relationships, gestures, values...or just living life .....it has all changed maybe not totally, i can say modified. I had only heard people sayin that 'things are not always as they look' or 'people can change almost overnight' .....never got the chance to experience it till recently.
I have learnt to keep my cool and take things with a pinch of salt.Most of all i have learnt to be independant. There is one thing that i truly believe and that is to be true to oneself . It really doesnt matter if people perceive you wrongly .... because at the end of day you have to face yourself in the mirror and i would like to see myself and not some stranger in the mirror.
And as far as friends misunderstanding you is concerned..... relax! if they are your true friends they will understand you one day, give them some time.
Looking forward to learn a lot more things....preferably not the hard way...;)
But MBA has been a different experience for me. It has taught me to stay away from home.I can confidently say my coll is my second home.My parents have started considering me as their payin guests(only difference being... i dont pay!) as i come home only to sleep. There are times when i dont get to see my father for days ....as... i enter the house when he goes to sleep and i wake up in the morning after he leaves for work. Its cool to use the phrase.."hey dad! long time no c!"
I have learnt a lot after joining this college and by sayin this i mean apart form the normal book stuff.There were soo many things that i used to believe ....especially about relationships, gestures, values...or just living life .....it has all changed maybe not totally, i can say modified. I had only heard people sayin that 'things are not always as they look' or 'people can change almost overnight' .....never got the chance to experience it till recently.
I have learnt to keep my cool and take things with a pinch of salt.Most of all i have learnt to be independant. There is one thing that i truly believe and that is to be true to oneself . It really doesnt matter if people perceive you wrongly .... because at the end of day you have to face yourself in the mirror and i would like to see myself and not some stranger in the mirror.
And as far as friends misunderstanding you is concerned..... relax! if they are your true friends they will understand you one day, give them some time.
Looking forward to learn a lot more things....preferably not the hard way...;)
Monday, January 26, 2009
F.R.I.E.N.D.S
I have found best of friends in the weirdest of ways!And i am thankful to the almighty for that!
'oh! you r goin out?? ....with who? friends?'
'yup'
'Which friends?...school??'
'nope'
'Coll?'
'nope'
'MBA?'
'nope.....just friends....there is a world beyond school n coll...;)'
And i am very fortunate to have them.i know they will always be there for me(n vice versa ....of course!:) ).
I remember the time when we went out for a short trip for new years eve.We had an opportunity to get drunk.But the idea of getting drunk doesnt really facinate me unlike my friends;).But i decided to try vodka(no.... i didnt have neat!) with sprite.The guys in my group were quite worried though,as they were thought we might get drunk in just one shot n fall in the bushes.They were literally stalkin us throughout....but i thought it was very sweet of them.
As we were dancing thru the night,we were in high spirits[....me due to music and my dear friends, due to the spirit named 'vodka'] my friend suddenly stopped,turned to me and said 'you know what....i never thought i would get such a good friend like u', thats all she said and she continued dancing with her eyes half closed.I really didnt know how to react....but it left me feeling gr8!
That night i didnt need vodka to get a high.
'oh! you r goin out?? ....with who? friends?'
'yup'
'Which friends?...school??'
'nope'
'Coll?'
'nope'
'MBA?'
'nope.....just friends....there is a world beyond school n coll...;)'
And i am very fortunate to have them.i know they will always be there for me(n vice versa ....of course!:) ).
I remember the time when we went out for a short trip for new years eve.We had an opportunity to get drunk.But the idea of getting drunk doesnt really facinate me unlike my friends;).But i decided to try vodka(no.... i didnt have neat!) with sprite.The guys in my group were quite worried though,as they were thought we might get drunk in just one shot n fall in the bushes.They were literally stalkin us throughout....but i thought it was very sweet of them.
As we were dancing thru the night,we were in high spirits[....me due to music and my dear friends, due to the spirit named 'vodka'] my friend suddenly stopped,turned to me and said 'you know what....i never thought i would get such a good friend like u', thats all she said and she continued dancing with her eyes half closed.I really didnt know how to react....but it left me feeling gr8!
That night i didnt need vodka to get a high.
Age factor!
She:"Hey....we cant tell him that!!! he is elder!!"
Me:"So??....That doesnt make him right.What he did was still wrong."
She:"I know dear, but he is too old to understand that.His generation has that mentality, we cant change that"
Me:"But someone needs to tell him he is wrong.He cant go about insulting pple like this....he has no right!"
She:"Hushhhh....You are being too loud.Anyways you cant change him,.....no one can,we tried...(me: but ... but.....)....Relax! go to your room."
' Respect',its meaning and the sole purpose has changed.Respect is something that comes from within for someone.It cannot be forced.Its true that we need to respect elders....but to what extent??Just b'cos we respect them,does it give them any right to dominate us.For that matter does it mean whatever they do is right??and we still have to nod with a smile and accept it with 'grace' to be titled as the ideal child/grandchild/student...etc.
Respect is not something that is to be demanded....it is to be earned!....just like trust!
If you demand respect....it actually means you dont deserve it!
Me:"So??....That doesnt make him right.What he did was still wrong."
She:"I know dear, but he is too old to understand that.His generation has that mentality, we cant change that"
Me:"But someone needs to tell him he is wrong.He cant go about insulting pple like this....he has no right!"
She:"Hushhhh....You are being too loud.Anyways you cant change him,.....no one can,we tried...(me: but ... but.....)....Relax! go to your room."
' Respect',its meaning and the sole purpose has changed.Respect is something that comes from within for someone.It cannot be forced.Its true that we need to respect elders....but to what extent??Just b'cos we respect them,does it give them any right to dominate us.For that matter does it mean whatever they do is right??and we still have to nod with a smile and accept it with 'grace' to be titled as the ideal child/grandchild/student...etc.
Respect is not something that is to be demanded....it is to be earned!....just like trust!
If you demand respect....it actually means you dont deserve it!
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
I was goin through some old blogs of mine.Here is a post i came across which i had written after watching an amazing movie 'PS:I Love U' somewhere during christmas.Thought of sharing it...
'Never thought a movie would take me through so much of emotions .Itz so overwhelming to see or know how much a person can care about u or love you even after death….n see that u r ok.
There were many lines that hit me hard, made me think what others might go thru becos of the decisions u make. That brings me back to my original question…’is it that simple or just too complicated??’
“I am tired of being your shoulder”, “I want to be a part of u”,“I wish I was some1s jerry”,” I wish some1 could luv me sooo much that I would use her soo much that she would be ruined for any other man to use”…..
The feeling of being wanted keeps one breathing, the feeling of knowing that u make a difference in sum1z life is devine,sum1 is living for u,u r the reason for sum1z survival makes ur life meaningful …. Doesn’t it??
U reach a point in life where u realize,it really doesn’t matter how much marks u scored,who is ahead of who in life,ur career,job ….nothing….really nothing!when u see death nearin u, all u wish is to spend more time with pple u care abt and/or pple who care about u.u wish u could tell them how much u loved them,apologise for everything u said/did wrong ,…
Life is unpredictable! too short to hate sum1.reminds me of my professor who used to say”if u start hating every1 when will u find time to love them”, “be a child….don’t care who thinks what”,”Oh! U find it crazzy??....gr8!!!!.... do it!”.
Live life….its unpredictable.Tomorrow is a mystery, yesterday is a history…today is a gift …that’s why itz called a present.
Never miss an opprtunity to tell pple around u how much u love them,care about them.... enjoy every moment of ur life,dont waste time planning it...just live it!
i know its not that simple ...on the contrary its a luxury for most of us to do what we want to but instead of cribbing about it rather make the best of what we can,lets start from sumwhere.
so go plan ur vacation with ur loved ones.
Happy holidays!
P.S: I Love u'
'Never thought a movie would take me through so much of emotions .Itz so overwhelming to see or know how much a person can care about u or love you even after death….n see that u r ok.
There were many lines that hit me hard, made me think what others might go thru becos of the decisions u make. That brings me back to my original question…’is it that simple or just too complicated??’
“I am tired of being your shoulder”, “I want to be a part of u”,“I wish I was some1s jerry”,” I wish some1 could luv me sooo much that I would use her soo much that she would be ruined for any other man to use”…..
The feeling of being wanted keeps one breathing, the feeling of knowing that u make a difference in sum1z life is devine,sum1 is living for u,u r the reason for sum1z survival makes ur life meaningful …. Doesn’t it??
U reach a point in life where u realize,it really doesn’t matter how much marks u scored,who is ahead of who in life,ur career,job ….nothing….really nothing!when u see death nearin u, all u wish is to spend more time with pple u care abt and/or pple who care about u.u wish u could tell them how much u loved them,apologise for everything u said/did wrong ,…
Life is unpredictable! too short to hate sum1.reminds me of my professor who used to say”if u start hating every1 when will u find time to love them”, “be a child….don’t care who thinks what”,”Oh! U find it crazzy??....gr8!!!!.... do it!”.
Live life….its unpredictable.Tomorrow is a mystery, yesterday is a history…today is a gift …that’s why itz called a present.
Never miss an opprtunity to tell pple around u how much u love them,care about them.... enjoy every moment of ur life,dont waste time planning it...just live it!
i know its not that simple ...on the contrary its a luxury for most of us to do what we want to but instead of cribbing about it rather make the best of what we can,lets start from sumwhere.
so go plan ur vacation with ur loved ones.
Happy holidays!
P.S: I Love u'
10 things I hate about u
I just cant get over this piece of work!!
enjoy
"I hate the way you talk to me
and the way you cut your hair
I hate the way you drive my car
I hate it when you stare
I hate your big dumb combat boots
and the way you read my mind
I hate you so much it makes me sick
it even makes me rhyme
I hate it
I hate the way you're always right
I hate it when you lie
I hate it when you make me laugh
even worse when you make me cry
I hate it when you're not around and the fact you didn't call,
but mostly I hate the way I don't hate you,
not even close, not even a little bit, not even at all."
.... dont u luv it too!
enjoy
"I hate the way you talk to me
and the way you cut your hair
I hate the way you drive my car
I hate it when you stare
I hate your big dumb combat boots
and the way you read my mind
I hate you so much it makes me sick
it even makes me rhyme
I hate it
I hate the way you're always right
I hate it when you lie
I hate it when you make me laugh
even worse when you make me cry
I hate it when you're not around and the fact you didn't call,
but mostly I hate the way I don't hate you,
not even close, not even a little bit, not even at all."
.... dont u luv it too!
my first blog....yaaaayyyy
Here is my first blog...well not technically but on this site(my very own site!!) yes..its my first one.
I always wanted to write my personal diary to pour out my emotions,interal conflicts,frustration but was never successful.Anyways now i have found myself an e-diary where i can torture my readers my emo fundas...;)
So,al the best if you r reading my blogs!
wait for my next one....till then chao!
I always wanted to write my personal diary to pour out my emotions,interal conflicts,frustration but was never successful.Anyways now i have found myself an e-diary where i can torture my readers my emo fundas...;)
So,al the best if you r reading my blogs!
wait for my next one....till then chao!
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